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Welcome to the first of our what Happens Here, Happens
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Everywhere Domestic Violence Awareness Month bonus episodes. I'm Sean and
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with me as always is the one and only John.
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I am the only John in the room.
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This week, we have a special presentation from the Murder
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Diaries Podcast. For more than five years, Natalie and Page
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have been producing the podcast with the goal of always
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keeping the victims light and name alive as they cover missing, unsolved,
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and suspicious death cases.
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Their podcast is victim centric and honors the memories of
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those lost and provides hope to their loved ones. You
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can find out more at the Murderdiaries podcast dot com
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or on their Instagram at the Murderdiaries Pod. All the
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links will be in the show notes for this episode.
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They work closely with the victy sister, Nicki, and we
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also truly appreciate Nicki also allowing us to share Stephanie's story.
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And now a special presentation of the Murder Diaries.
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Welcome to the Murder Diaries. I'm Natalie and I'm Paige.
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On July ninth, nineteen ninety three, Stephanie wa Solisi's eldest daughter, Nicki,
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was awoken from a deep sleep. The ten year old
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had gone to bed around eleven PM, and by two AM,
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her world had turned upside down as she was shaken
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awake by police officers. The officers told her to get up,
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get dressed, and get out of the house with them.
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There had been an altercation. They said her mom and
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boyfriend had gotten into a fight. The officers escorted her
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from the house and tried to shield Nicki, but she
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saw more than any child should ever have to for
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this episode, we were so honored when Nicki was solition
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agreed to sit down with us to help us understand
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the events of July eighth and ninth, nineteen ninety three,
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the events that led to her mother's untimely death, and
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to share her understanding of the investigation. This is Stephanie
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was Salishan's story, as told by her daughter. You used
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to think it I'm walking with the day. During my
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conversation with Nicki. She started by sharing some details about
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her mom's upbringing. Before we get into that, though, it's
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important to note that those who were close to Stephanie
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called her Stacy, but for this episode, we'll be calling
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her Stephanie because it's her legal name and we want
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to make it easy for anyone looking for the case
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to find it. So just keep that in mind. When
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you hear clips of my conversation with Nicki, she refers
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to her mom as Stacy, but Stephanie Stacy, They're the
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same person. Stephanie and her twin brother, Stephen, were born
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in nineteen sixty one near Chicago. Tragically, though Stephen died
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before his first birthday.
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She was a twin and her twin brother will die
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seven months after birth from the measles, and that will
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prompt my family to move from the Chicago area, which
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is where my mother was born in nineteen sixty one,
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to the Phoenix area. Don't know what drove them to
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Phoenix in the sixties, but it was the immediate distaste
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of the police because they didn't want to transport little
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baby Stephen because of the measles. Because of the sixties,
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it was a big epidemic, so that is essentially why
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he died, so my family has never trusted the police
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starting from there.
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Measles is a highly contagious disease and a vaccine wasn't
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developed until nineteen sixty three, as per the World Health Organization.
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Before the vaccine was developed, the measles caused approximately two
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point six million deaths worldwide each year, and complications were
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most common in children under the age of five.
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According to a letter written by the Wasclisian family that
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was published in Berwin, Illinois newspaper The Life. On February eleventh,
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nineteen sixty two, an ambulance was called to transport a
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very sick baby, Stephen, to the hospital. While the family
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was told that help was only minutes away, in reality
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it took so much longer. Two police officers eventually arrived,
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but no ambulance, and the officers refused to help get
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the sick baby to the hospital. Instead, they suggested calling
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a taxi and not disclosing that the baby had the measles.
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The wah Solution family didn't want to do that, so
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they asked if the police would at least give them
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an escort to the hospital in a family member's car,
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but this was also denied. An investigation later revealed that
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the ambulance wasn't allowed to attend the call due to
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the contagious nature of measles, and it was the fire
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chief who made the call to stop the ambulance team
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from going, even though it was found in the investigation
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that it would have been safe for them to attend
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the call and help the baby. So by the time
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Stephen was taken to the hospital in his uncle's car,
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it was too late and he died that night. The
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family left Chicago after Stephen's death, they headed west, planning
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roots in Phoenix, Arizona. Because Stephanie was just a baby
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when the move happened, Phoenix was her real hometown, the
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place that she connected to, and not long after their arrival,
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the family welcomed the last wascilition baby, Wendy. Now, Stephanie
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and Wendy were not only close in age, but they
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were close full stop. In fact, Nikki calls them a
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packaged deal and says that her Aunt Wendy was a
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big part of her upbringing.
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Kathy's the eldest, very eldest, and my godmother. There's Aunt Kathy,
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then there's Aunt Patty, Uncle Michael Uncle Lance, my mom,
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and baby Stephen, and then Wendy. So she's a family
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of five and Aunt Kathy's the eldest sister, so my
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mom would always confide in Aunt Kathy, and Wendy was
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the youngest sister and closest to my mom, So my
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mom and Wendy grew together. So if you're going to
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ask what siblings were the closest, it was definitely Kathy
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and Wendy.
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Despite a close relationship with her sisters, Stephanie's relationship with
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her mother was tough.
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Stephanie wanted to break that cycle and become a mom,
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but not just any mom, the best mom. She married
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and had a baby with a man named Craig. That
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baby was Nicky. Craig and Stephanie's marriage unfortunately didn't work out,
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and they eventually divorced when Nicki was young. Stephanie then
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started a relationship with Russell Peterson. Stephanie and Russell also
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had a daughter named Christina, and the foursome that's Stephanie, Russell, Nicky,
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and Christina moved into a two bedroom house on Coffee
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Pot Drive in Sedona, Arizona. The house was surrounded by
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trees and those iconic Sidona Red Rocks. Stephanie worked as
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a pastry chef at Pietro's Restaurant, which wasn't far from
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her home. Russell worked there as well as a chef.
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In retrospect, my mom never wanted to be a latle,
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a doctor. She never wanted to go and be a business.
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All she wanted to do was have babies at young,
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very young age because she didn't have a really great
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lifestyle with her mom. I mean, essentially, Grandma was really
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mad that mom survived and baby Stephen died, and she
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was really mean to my mom growing up. So she
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wanted to give what she never had, and she gave
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that to me, and for ten years she was able
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to have that little perfect life before she was taken.
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So to take away this and to stop rambling. Who
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my mom was was a homemaker. She loved a bake,
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she loved a garden, She loved to make herself beautiful.
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She was very proud of herself, and she really just
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wanted children.
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Sadly, Nikki told us that she didn't see her sister
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very often after her mother's death, due to them being
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raised by their respective fathers.
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I got to grow up with my sister for three
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years until my mother's murder. After my mother was murdered,
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she went with her dad. I went with mine, and
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we live separate lives. To be honest with you, she's
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kind of a stranger. We hardly know each other.
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Because Nikki lost her mom at such a young age,
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she has trouble putting her memories of her mom into words,
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but she tried her best for her interview, and for
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that we're so grateful. Here's what she had to say.
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I don't know so much about my mom because I
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lost her at ten years old, So I'll tell you
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what I know of her. I know that she always
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wanted kids and had two abortions before me, and at
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nineteen she finally had me, and she wanted a family
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so bad. And I was her little baby Dolly, and
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she was always dressing me up and baking. She loved
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to bake, and always baking great things and giving me
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the beaters. And she was a clean freak. This is
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something I always neglect to mention in podcasts, but she
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was obsessively clean. Even my dad will bring up the
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fact that he couldn't drop his underwear on the ground
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and they couldn't be there more than twenty minutes before
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my mom was over there obsessively scooping it up and
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then at him about keeping stuff clean, and you'll always
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bring that up. And then I always fondly remember, God,
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I hated the fact that she made me used to
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scrub the walls as a kid because she was ocd clean.
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Nicki does clearly remember her mom fostering her love of reading,
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always making sure Niki had the latest Goosebumps book to devour.
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Okay, so my mom was that cool mom in her
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late twenties and early thirties, and when Ralstein was popping off,
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she made sure that her daughter had the newest one
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that was fresh off of the release, you know, on
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the release stand every month, because those are coming out
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every two three months at that point, and I always
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had the newest edition. I would come home and it
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would be on my bed or something she encouraged me
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to read, and she was proud of the fact that
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I liked to read.
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Stephanie also ensured Nicki was dressed in trendy clothing, emulating
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nineties TV wardrobes, though they didn't always see eye to
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eye on hairstyles, and it was a source of contention
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between them, something that NICKI now looks back on and
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laughs at.
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I was always very proud of the fact that my
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mom would get me the coolest. Plus, my mom was
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so hip, and I was kind of a nerd, like
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I'm still kind of a nerd. But she understood trending
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before trending was a thing, and in the nineties like
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Melissa Joan Hart and Sabrina Teenage Witch like that aired
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like in real time. When I was nine ten years old,
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and my mom made me watch Nick Kelodeon and made
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me watch that because she knew that was cool, and
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she would dress me like Melissa Joan Hart. She made
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sure that I went to school like the Little Dolly,
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and I would get so mad that she would spend
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so much time on my hair. And I hated yanking
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on my hair and the brushes and the curls, and
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I get really resentful and I would go like days
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without brushing at myself as I got older, and as punishment,
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she did this twice to me. She would take me
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to the barber shop and cut it off like a
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boy and tell me if I didn't want to look
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like a girl and treat myself like a girl that
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I could look like a boy, and I remember being
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so devastated. And if you see pictures of me in
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nineteen ninety three, right before and right after her murder,
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you'll notice that Nikki had short hair.
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When I asked Nikki to speak about the events leading
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up to her mom's death, she told me she's an
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open book because she knows the more she talks, the
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more listeners will hear her mom's story, and maybe she'll
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finally get answers from the police and from a court.
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So Nicki recounted for us the summer's day that would
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be her mom's last, and despite it being the middle
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of summer in Arizona, she recalls the weather as pleasant
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and not too hot, and as with all nineties kids,
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on a nice day, she was told to go outside
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and play with her sister. Kids entertained themselves for hours
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outside back then, and Nicki and her sister were no exception.
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It was actually July eighth, nineteen ninety three, was the
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middle of summer Incidona, Arizona, so it wasn't that hot,
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so we were playing inside.
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Outside Nicki remembers that her mom came home from work,
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started drinking and then called her sister.
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My mom got off at you know, five, six o'clock.
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I don't remember the day that day, but I'll never
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forget the night. So I remember my mom was on
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the phone. She was really pissy that day. She started
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having some beers. I'm ten, my little sister's three. We're coloring,
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We're playing hide and seek, We're running around. I've got
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a dog cat. We're doing a little kids do. We've
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got the attention span of a squirrel. So I don't
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know what we were doing. We were all over the house,
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but I know that we were making enough noise that
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my mom kept yelling at us to go to our room,
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go outside, be quiet. You know, it was all night
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long because we were bugging her because she was making
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big plans. I didn't know this at the time, but
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she will come home from work. She'll start cracking beers
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and call my aunt at I don't know, seven o'clock