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Hello, Sins and Survivors listeners. As we get closer to
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wrapping up our second season, we're taking a little time
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to recharge and gear up for some incredible stories in
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season three. So over the next few weeks we'll be
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dropping the occasional surprise episode and a few special feed swaps.
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Today, we're bringing you something a little different, a special
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feed swap episode from our friends over at PNW Haunts
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and Homicides, Caitlin and Cassie. They cover true crime and
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haunted history from the Pacific Northwest, and their storytelling is thoughtful, funny,
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and well researched. The episode you're about to hear covers
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the heartbreaking story of miche Melendez and her seven year
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old daughter, Laylah Stewart. It's the story of two lives
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cut short and a case that should have been prevented.
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It's yet another example of how red flags can be missed,
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how systems often fail victims of domestic violence and just
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how urgent this issue really is. Cassie and Caitlin walked
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through the timeline, the history of the man responsible, and
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the many points where this could have gone differently. It's heavy,
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but powerful, and an important reminder that these aren't just stories,
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they're people. When you're done, head over to sinspod dot co,
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slash PNW, or look for them wherever you get your podcasts.
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It isn't just a true crime story. It's a timeline
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of heartbreak, a story of a mother, a daughter, and
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a system that seemed to have every opportunity to prevent
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their deaths and didn't. What happened to them is horrifying,
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but what's equally chilling is how much could have been prevented.
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We tell ourselves that we have systems in place to
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help prevent these tragedies in our communities. Hey Cassie, Hey Caitlin, Hi,
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creepy people. Hey, this is PNW Haunts and Homicides where
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we chat about true crime, also haunted stuff, you know,
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kind of whatever we're feeling. Comes Saturday at about three o'clock.
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Holy shit, Wow, any who's all and where? In the
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Pacific Northwest. It's the PNW if you're nasty. So you
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gotta tell them what the PNW means. I just won't know.
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They just they How could they not.
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Go through the whole episode and just get to the
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end and learn nothing and they'll just be like the
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whole time, I was like, what does P ANDW even mean?
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Yeah, that's honestly, it's it's one of the greater issues
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facing facing, facing, facing our nation. Two day, our country,
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our country. Forget about those deportations, it's the pay in W.
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That's what's on everyone's mind. I just really want to
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know what that stands for.
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Killing God, you gotta stop getting so motherfucking political.
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Honestly, it's probably not going to stop. Please you, just you.
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It's almost like we actually spend a lot of time
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and money creating the show, and then the content that
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you consume from it is free, so you know, it's.
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Your choice unless you join our Patreon. Yeah that's right,
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and then you get add for you and then because
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technically they're not free, because you do pay for them
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with your ear holes by listening to other ads.
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That's true, it's true, and that is a hell of
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approach to let me tell you, I want to give
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us real money. Yeah, as someone who just paid the
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price for YouTube videos of pronunciations for the most random
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things earlier today. Honestly, yeah, we paid YouTube a lot
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of money with our ears. Are your holes? Oh boy? Oh? Bullieve? Well, anyways,
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so I guess should we? Oh? We we forgot the
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one thing? What do we know?
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At the end of our episodes, we do a little
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tear out the end of our episode for a little
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deeper insight into our topic.
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Are you ready to get into a story? I guess so, Okay, great,
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I'm here. That makes one of us. Well, hopefully you
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guys are ready. You're here too. We're all in this together.
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Let's go. Oh boy, did you know that the city
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of Portland hasn't recorded a single homicide this month? And
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as we record this it is April. I did not
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know that. Well, that's as of April twenty first this year. Anyway,
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So April twenty sixth twenty five, at three eight in
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the month of March, seven people were killed in Portland,
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a total of ten so far for the calendar year.
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Last summer, our neighboring state to the north was reporting
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a downward trend sort of the state of Washington not Canada.
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Just to be clear, they are not actually a state
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as a recording, they are still very much a nation
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independent from the US. Round of applause, applause. Okay, it
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is and always will be the Gulf of Mexico. I
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was literally thinking the same thing. Weird, yeah, okay. The
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Washington Association of Sheriffs and Police Chiefs published its annual
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data on crimes reported statewide for twenty twenty three. Their
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report revealed that there were a total of three hundred
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and seventy six murders recorded throughout the state of Washington
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last year three three seventy seven, three hundred and seventy six.
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Why you just said it seventy seven.
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But still it's like like one a day, over one
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of how many days were there in a year? Three
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hundred and sixty five, Yes, like over one a day though,
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that's just crazy.
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Yep. This represented a five point eight percent drop from
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the previous year, which seems positive until compared to another statistic.
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It also represents an eighty one point one percent increase
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over figures dating back to twenty nineteen, So eighty one
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zero point one percent increase reported in twenty twenty three
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compared to twenty nineteen. Wow, what is happening? Well, I
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think there's one thing that was happening in that span
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that explains a lot. Oh am, I like forgetting something big,
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the great Panini. Oh oh well.
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Duh okay, Cassie, I just like try to put that
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out of my head.
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Yes, because as we know, twenty twenty was in fact
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the longest decade ever. H horrific and sad and yeah.
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And when I say twenty twenty I don't mean the
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decade twenty twenty to future date twenty thirty. I mean
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twenty twenty the year. The standalone year felt like an
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entire decade.
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Was this an increase in murders though, or just deaths
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in general?
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But like this is what this is homicide? Peopleill be
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COVID murdering out there. Yeah, well think about it. Shelter
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in place, which was very necessary. But if you are
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living with someone who is violent, that was one of
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those like really tough things about it. Yeah. Violent offenses
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rose steadily in twenty twenty and hit their peak in
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twenty twenty two in terms of violent crime overall. The
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month where these so called crimes against persons occurred was May,
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right around the corner. May the fourth be with you. Oh.
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I've always heard April showers bring May flowers, but apparently
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that's not all. Notably, February was the month where such
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crimes were the least frequent. Valentine's Day, I guess I
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just assume that winter kind of like you know, the
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summer heat brings out the worst and a lot of people.
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That's all included in a super non murdery way in
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my case. But no, everyone's bitch just feeling the low.
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But Valentine's Day, is it? I do have a question.
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Is it just because there's like a couple of days
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missing that makes it the least could be?
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Could be? I think that's a very valid point, to
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be honest, those couple of days, anything could happen, you know. Yeah.
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I skimmed over quite a few sections of this report,
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and it breaks down a lot of different statistics related
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to crime. Obviously, that's the whole point in the state
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of Washington for twenty twenty three, and it's very interesting
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to see the data points. Certainly, I don't know. I
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have thoughts and feelings, obviously. I know it's weird. It's like,
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that's why I have this fucking microphone or something. I
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don't know, who knows. Why are we here today? We're
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covering a story that's as devastating as it is important
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to tell. It's a case that highlights what happens when
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warning signs are ignored and victims fall through the cracks
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of a system meant to protect them. It's the kind
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of story that makes you want to sit with the
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weight of it for a minute, a moment, maybe just
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the one, because it's pretty heavy. We'll be walking through
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the lives and tragic deaths of Miche Melendez and her
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seven year old daughter, Laylah Stewart Layelah, Laylah. I love
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that name. I know this is not an easy story,
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but it's one that matters, and I think I hope
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that everybody know this applies to every story that I
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talk about. But it isn't just a true crime story.
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It's a timeline of heartbreak, a story of a mother,
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a daughter, and a system that seemed to have every
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opportunity to prevent their deaths and didn't. What happened to
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them is horrifying, but what's equally chilling is how much
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could have been prevented. We tell ourselves that we have
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systems in place to help prevent these tragedies in our communities.
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Let's start at the beginning. Miche Melendez was twenty seven.
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She was a mother, a daughter, and a friend. Lailah Stewart.
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Was bright, funny, with her whole life ahead of her.
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I mean she was seven years old, so literally her
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whole life ahead of her.
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I feel like seven's like a fun age. They start
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to get like their own little personality, like for real.
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Yeah yeah, And she definitely seemed like she had a
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really fun personality. The morning of March twelfth, twenty twenty three,
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was the last time Miche and Layla were seen alive
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before both vanished. The last person they were seen with
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was Kirkland C. Warren, a man that Miche had a
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complicated relationship with. They stopped by a friend's house on
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Northeast Lewett Loop. That friend told police that Warren dropped
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Layla off there temporarily before leaving again. When they came
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back about three hours later, Miche well she was passed
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out in the front passenger seat of Warren's Dodge Charger.
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looked unconscious. It was a brief interaction. Warren just went
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into the home, picked up Leila, and then drove off
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and that was the last time anyone saw either of them.
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I feel like you should be going to a hospital
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if someone is unconscious in your car.
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No, the consensus was that he was just trying to
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pass it off, like, oh, she's just like hungover. Okay,
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that's that was the the vibe. She was just passed out. Okay.
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I'm thinking like like fate, like she's episode yeah, and
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you're just like picking up the dot. No, like go
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to the hospital, right.
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Okay, Okay, if she's just like passed out from drinking
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or something, right, not as concerning, but this is still.
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for yeah, yeah, well, well I've been drunk in the morning.
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I mean, sure, who hasn't Probably people that don't drink.
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But you know, now, here's what you need to know
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about Kirkland, see Warren. Other than that, I developed a
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nickname for him, and I don't think it's particularly clever,
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but I had fun with it. I can't wait to
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hear it. Soggy hot Dog Kirkland. Do they have soggy
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hot dogs? Well, what's it? Called cost Costco. No, he's
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a soggy hot dog.
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I would never get a hot dog there. It's all
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eat chicken bake. What do you go there for chicken?
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Ban? We are you getting a hot who's getting a
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hot dog? Who are you? Yeah? Anyways, he was a
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man with a documented history of violence, a pending murder
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charge in Arkansas. In Arkansas, so he moved Sure did yeah?
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Wonder why? Yeah? I know, you know it's weird. Wait
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can you if they're what are you going to leave?
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The state begs the question, doesn't it Yeah? It's almost like,
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don't we have systems in place for this? I have questions?
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Uh huh yeah, I bet Yeah. Also, there was an
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active no contact order from the court. This didn't come
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out of nowhere. This started years ago. November twenty seventh,
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twenty seventeen, Warren shot Curtis Urkhart in the head with
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a twenty two caliber pistol. He later admitted to the shooting,
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telling police it was self defense. He dumped the body
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in a ditch on December twelfth. He was arrested on
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December thirteenth. He posted bond and walked free.
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I can't get the words out because I'm just so
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very confused.
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Yeah. Yeah, so it turns out you actually can very
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easily jump bond and move to a different state. Uh
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when they like when they let you out on bond.
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But but murder, murder, you killing, and you dumped a body.
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M you see, which he actually had admitted to. He's like,
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never denied that I killed the guy, never denied that
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I tampered with the forensic evidence related to the corpse.
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I'm just saying it's self defense.
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I feel like it can be self defense, but like
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it can't be both, Like this is one of those
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things where two things can't be true, Like you can't
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try to cover up your self defense murder. Like if
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it's self defense, you call the fucking police and be like,
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I killed someone.
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Great, No, it looks really bad and how bad?
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How do you?