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Every once in a while, a case we've covered comes
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back to us in a way we didn't expect. It
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reminds us that these stories don't end when the headlines
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fade or when the court case closes. The families keep
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living with the aftermath, the questions, and the memories.
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When we started this podcast, we said that if even
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one family felt seen or understood, it would all be
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worth it. We received a message of hope this holiday
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season from an unexpected source, and this week we are
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sharing it with all of you.
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Hi, and Welcome to Sins and Survivors. The Las Vegas
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True crime podcast refocus on cases that deal with domestic violence,
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as well as missing persons and unsolved cases. I'm your
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host Sean.
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And I'm your co host John.
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As we mentioned in the intro, we want to share
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something really meaningful that happened recently. A few weeks ago,
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one of Brittany Laval's sons reached out to us we
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mentioned him in the episode. He was only three years
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old when she was murdered. He's an adult now, nineteen
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and doing incredibly well. He told us that he listened
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to the episode we did about his mom and that
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hearing her story laid out so clearly helped him understand
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what she went through in a way that he hadn't before.
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We cover a lot of difficult cases, but we always
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remind ourselves that every person we talk about is someone's family,
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someone's parent, someone's child, and there's always a good chance
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our episode will reach them. To hear from Britney's son,
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now a young man who's building his own life, meant
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a lot to both of us. He shared a little
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bit with us about how he and his brothers are
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doing and how it was really uplifting. They've grown up
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surrounded by family, by people who loved Brittney and kept
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her memory alive for him. And he told us that
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he's a boxer fighting as Golden Boy Laval, which speaks
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to the resilience, strength and discipline he has.
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He also mentioned that the boys received a small settlement
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after their mom died. Nothing replaces a parent, of course,
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but hearing that they had at least some support as
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they grew up given everything they were facing. That was
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good to know. It's one of those small things that
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doesn't fix the lass, but at least offers some support.
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What really stayed with me was that he told us
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that his mom loved Christmas. It was her favorite holiday.
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And as soon as he said that, we realized now
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would be the perfect time to re release her episode.
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The holidays are an incredibly emotional time for families who
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have lost someone to violence, especially someone who should still
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be here celebrating with her kids, watching them grow into adulthood.
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He agreed that re releasing the episode was a great idea.
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It feels right to the three of us, giving people
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another chance to hear her story, to remember her and
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her family, and to honor what she went through. Brittany
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did every thing she was supposed to do. She took
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every step that an advocate would recommend, and still the
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system couldn't protect her. That's why we told her story originally,
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and it's why we tell it today. But now adding
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this update, hearing that her boys have grown into young
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men who are doing well, that gives her story a
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different kind of weight, as her son said, we're still
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heartbroken about our mother, but we all are out here striving.
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All of this highlights the long term impact of domestic violence,
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not just the real lifelong trauma, but also the strength
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that takes for kids to rebuild their lives after losing
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a parent in such a violent way. It shows the
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strength of Britney's family who stepped in and loved those
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boys through the hardest possible thing, and the devotion of
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her mother to become a vocal advocate and continue to
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push for change for survivors. So if you're listening today
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and you heard this episode when it first came out,
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we hope this gives you some new context, especially hearing
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about Britney's sons and how they're doing. And if this
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is your first time hearing her story, we hope you'll
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keep her in mind through the holiday season. She loved
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this time of year and she deserved many more Christmases
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with her boys.
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Before we go into the original episode, we want to
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say thank you again to Britney's son for reaching out
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to us. That takes courage and openness, and it reminds
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us why we keep doing this, why these stories matter
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far beyond downloads and episodes and podcast charts. This re
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releases for Brittany, it's for her children, and it's for
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every survivor who did everything right and still wasn't protected.
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We hope that by sharing her story again, especially at
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a time of year she loved, we can honor her
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memory and remind everyone that domestic violence doesn't end when
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the news cycle moves on. It affects families for generations.
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With that, here is our original episode.
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In a twenty four hour city like Las Vegas, early
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morning means many workers are getting their days started while
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others are clocking out and heading home. At the end
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of a long shift. In the pre dawn hours of
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March twenty fifth, twenty ten, a scream broke the silence.
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Lee and Wade turned their heads towards the Jack in
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the Box restaurant across the street. Moments later, they heard
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a gunshot and saw a woman collapse in the parking lot.
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They ran out to help, but it was too late.
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A young mother of three who had done everything right
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to escape her abuser had just been murdered, and the
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man who killed her he should never have had a gun.
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Hi and welcome to Sins and Survivors. A Las Vegas
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True crime podcast where we focus on cases that deal
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with domestic violence, as well as missing persons and unsolved cases.
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I'm your host Sean.
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And I'm your co host John. Our main case this
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week is the story of a domestic violence survivor who
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did everything right but still had her life taken by
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her obsessive, controlling acts. Britney Lavall's story became a focal
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point for activists both locally and nationally in the conversation
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around guns and domestic violence and how we can create
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sensible gun regulations that keep survivors and families safe. Brittany
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was born on September first, nineteen eighty seven and was
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a Las Vegas native. She graduated from Desert Pines High School.
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Her mom's name is Michelle and her father as Charles.
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She had a brother, Brandon and a sister, Shana. She
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worked as a restaurant manager for Jack in the Box
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and was known for being very hard working and also
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a very devoted mother of three boys, whom she adored.
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The father of two of her boys was Kevin Gibson.
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Brittany had a relationship with Kevin that began in high school,
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which was described as being difficult, which is a bit
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of an understatement. Kevin was about three years older than
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she was and also attended Desert Pines High His lawyer
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would later describe Kevin like this, He was well liked
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in high school by his peers and his teachers. He
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was known to be friendly and tried really hard in school.
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He was a talented football player, and he received a
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few offers from colleges to attend and play. However, he
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was not able to make that happen, allegedly because of
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his mental health challenges. According to his lawyer, it's during
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that time between high school and college when Kevin's mental
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health health took a turn. He is said to have
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received treatment for bipolar disorder as well as schizophrenia. He
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reportedly did not have a steady work history and had
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difficulty maintaining access to health insurance and of course, his medications.
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We don't share that as an attempt to excuse any
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of Kevin's behaviors. Even his lawyers argued that this did
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not excuse his actions. We want to share this to
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give a complete picture of the events leading up to
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the crime and to highlight another challenge in shortcoming when
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it comes to domestic violence, access to consistent, effective mental
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health care for both perpetrators and survivors.
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The relationship between Kevin and Brittany was plagued by violent incidents,
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while it said they were together on again, off again
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for ten years. During that time, Kevin was involved with
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multiple other women and was arrested several times. In two
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thousand and three, he punched his girlfriend of two years,
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not Brittany, in the face and several times in the
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back of the head. He threw her into a wall
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and strangled her. He threatened her so she wouldn't call
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the police, but several hours later she was able to
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contacked her sister and then the police were called. He
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was convicted of battery in domestic violence. The following year,
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he pled guilty to a domestic violence to misdemeanor after
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he pushed another different girlfriend down the stairs and then
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dragged her back up the stairs by her t shirt
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and into their apartment. He was sentenced to ten days
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in jail and was ordered to attend counseling and perform
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community service. Twice. In two thousand and nine, he strangled
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yet another new girlfriend. He was also charged with threatening
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her and her dad to the effect of you're going
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to come up missing or your father's going to come
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up missing. According to court records, the victim in these
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cases didn't follow up and the charges were eventually dropped.
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For me, this highlights why it's important to not just
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stress a victim, leave their abuser, and build all of
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our policies around that. In the span of seven years,
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Kevin committed several acts of violence against three different women
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other than Brittany without effective punishment or treatment. Kevin continued
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to develop relationships with new women and went on to threaten, beat,
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and strangle them. Port records show a history of other
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charges not related to domestic violence, including felony charges of
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robbery and theft. In two thousand and three, he was
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charged with felony theft, but accepted a plea deal to
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attempted theft, which is a misdemeanor, and was sentenced to
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thirty days. During this timeframe, he also had a few
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citations for other misdemeanors, including one that mentions leaving the
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scene of an accident in a dui and a charge
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of leude conduct in two thousand and five. In two
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thousand and six, Kevin was charged with two counts of
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felony robbery and one count of conspiracy. In that case,
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he shoved a worker who was carrying a bank bag
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to the bank to make a deposit.
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After a shift.
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He slammed that victim into a lamppost, dislodging it from
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the ground. Once the victim was down, he grabbed the
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bank bag and ran away. The victim needed to be
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treated at a hospital for their injuries. He told the
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court that he was depressed and had no money. His
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girlfriend had just had a baby, and he was feeling
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like less of a man because he couldn't provide for
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his kids and he couldn't get a job because he
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had outstanding warrants. He told the court that if he
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was granted probation, he promised he would never be arrested
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for anything again. He was sentenced to three years probation,
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but approximately two years after he was sentenced, he was
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dishonorably discharged from probation for failing to comply with the
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conditions he was ordered to follow. The paperwork says that
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he would no longer be under the court's supervision. This
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feels like a failure of the system again.
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Kevin also committed acts of violence against Brittany and threatened
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to kill her several times. The two of them did
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have two children together, two boys, born approximately in two
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thousand and three and two thousand and five, according to
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both Kevin and her family. The two of them broke
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up around two thousand and eight. Kevin said it was
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because he was cheating on her, but Brittany started disclosing
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to her friends and family the types of abuse Kevin
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had inflicted on her, and the actions Brittany took after
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the breakup indicate that something much more serious was going on.
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Her dad, Charles, would later tell reporters that Kevin was
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jealous and continued to stalk her. After they broke Charles
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helped her move to a new apartment and they did
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not tell Kevin where she was living. He continued to
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call her constantly, to the point where she changed her
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phone number. He would often threaten her and say why
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are you going to let me see the kids, and
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repeatedly said I'm going to kill you. Kevin would go
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to where she was working and demand money from her
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as a way of bribing her to prevent him from
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making a scene at her work. It reached the point
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where she was transferred to a different Jack in the
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Box location, and her coworkers were told that no one
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was to tell anyone where Britney was working. We want
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to take a minute to note that this is the
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right thing to do, and we're glad that Jack in
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the Box took this step to help Britney stay safe
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and avoid further harassment of both her and likely her
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coworkers as well. We all recognize that it is abusive
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behavior like this that can result in victims becoming unemployed, unhoused,
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and even further trapped by domestic violence. This controlling behavior
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in harassment often results in victims quitting or getting fired,
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and were glad her employers allowed her to trend.
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Thanks for going back to the children for a second.
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It's in the record that Kevin repeatedly claimed she wasn't